We would like to be as spiritual as a certain man of God, or as wealthy as another prominent figure. But even if we make a lot of effort to try to emulate their success, the Bible says that our environment has the final say.

A ladies’ brunch… A guy’s night out… It’s true that sometimes it’s more comfortable to participate in activities that bring together people of the same gender. But we also need to step out of our comfort zone because a mixed circle of friends is very enriching.

That is a question that singles event organizers often receive. Those who ask this question want to know if they will find their soulmate in this activity. An adjustment is required.

The woman is discouraged. The man she is dating seems to put his best friend before her. However, the man says he is really in love with her. Should she give him an ultimatum: “Me or your friend?”

“I don’t know if I’m in love with this person…” some Christian singles sometimes wonder when they develop a deep friendship. They’ve been used to the standards of the world, but what about the children of God?