Finding a life partner isn’t easy. Delegating this search can sometimes seem tempting. However, entrusting this quest to others carries risks and prevents us from enjoying an experience essential to our spiritual and personal growth.


Finding a life partner isn’t easy. Delegating this search can sometimes seem tempting. However, entrusting this quest to others carries risks and prevents us from enjoying an experience essential to our spiritual and personal growth.

We know that living in fear is not God’s plan for our lives. Our Heavenly Father wants to see us fulfilled and free. But the Bible still encourages us to have a fear, that of the Lord. Do you have to be afraid of God? Not quite.

How many bad decisions do we make because we react to fear? Fear of losing, of missing out, of being judged by others… Watch out! The voice of fear can bury the voice of the Holy Spirit and steal our peace.

For some Christian singles, going out to meet other singles is a terrifying exercise. So much where they get discouraged. However, if we fix our eyes on the Lord, we will find the courage to move forward.

We live in uncertain times and even distressing for some. And even though we are Christians, this atmosphere of fear can seep into our souls and affect different parts of our hearts. But God has a perfect antidote!