Then here are some questions to discuss: Let’s start with a difficult question … Who here has ever experienced a breakup, divorce? I’m not going to ask you to recount this painful experience, but tell me, what did you think of other couples during this time, what did you think of love songs … Did that feeling of irritation, exasperation eventually go away, or were you left with a certain amount of disillusionment?

You had high hopes, you dreamed of a life together, and it ended horribly, with a breakup, or worse a divorce or death. Of course, we need to take a time to heal, but then let’s reject pessimism. After all, we serve the God of resurrection, right?!