Then here are some questions to discuss: We marry for love, but our marriage must also have a purpose. What purpose should a Christian marriage have? Read Joshua 24:15 If we marry only to meet our own needs, to fill a void, our marriage is doomed. Why do you think? Read Ephesians 5:31-33 You should not marry a person hoping that they will change after marriage. Why do you think this is dangerous?

“Do this to get your blessing!” “Follow These Simple Steps to Get Into God’s Promises!” Really? As we read the book of Job we quickly understand that there is no perfect recipe with God.

Next, here are some questions to discuss: What do you hear the most in your church? To wait for God to send you a partner or to take steps to meet them? Why do we more than often hear: “Wait, God is preparing them for you”? Maybe it is also because they don’t want Singles to run after love all the time. Song of Songs 8:4 : I charge you, O daughters of Jerusalem, do not stir up nor awaken love until it pleases.

Then here are some questions to discuss: What does the world (modern psychology) say about self-esteem? What does God say about who we are? How is knowing how God sees us good for our self-esteem? We can know what God says but have trouble accepting or believing it. So how do we believe it, especially when we see the opposite? Why is it important to have good self-esteem before entering into a relationship?

Then here are some questions to discuss: A goal is something you can do for yourself. Marriage cannot, therefore, be a goal, because it takes 2 people to get married! But what goals can you give yourself to be more ready to get married? Do you have other personal or professional goals that you could share with us? Do you have a spiritual goal or plan? Something you have in heart to do to make the Kingdom of God grow?