Singles, sometimes we are afraid of disturbing our married friends by calling them periodically. However, this is rarely the case! Do not hesitate to talk to them.

That is probably the greatest fear of Christian singles and the dominant question during dating. Yet in God, we can find there the peace we need to make this big decision.

A popular verse given to single people says that “he who finds a wife finds a good thing”, sometimes translated by “finds happiness” (Proverbs 18:22). Does this mean that to be happy, you have to get married? That is far from the truth!

Then here are some questions to discuss: There are advantages to being single. Can you name a few? But sometimes these benefits bring us into a kind of comfort. Do you find it difficult to get out of your comfort zone? What do you find most difficult about getting out of your comfort zone? (Does this comfort increase with age, is it more difficult to get out of our comfort as we age?

Then here are some questions to discuss: One of the biggest blockages for singles to enter into relationships is pride. How do you define “pride”? Pride can be manifested by being very sensitive to the opinions of others. Why do you think? Why can caring about the opinions of others be a form of pride? Pride can also manifest itself in the desire to control everything. Why do you think?