Finding a life partner isn’t easy. Delegating this search can sometimes seem tempting. However, entrusting this quest to others carries risks and prevents us from enjoying an experience essential to our spiritual and personal growth.

You both seem really attracted to each other; your conversation is ridiculously natural; you share a lot of the same hobbies; you have the same sense of humor; and there seems to be a strong mutual interest. There’s just one problem : you’re a Christian, but they are not.

Is it a sin for a woman to make the first move? Will it scare a man off because it’s too pushy? When a woman takes matters into her own hands does it mean she doesnt trust God? All very hard questions.

“No, we’re not thinking of marriage, we are just getting to know each other.” A phrase we hear often and looks good, but can be very dangerous.

Apparently, it’s more difficult for a Christian Single to get a date than a non-Christian one. But why? How do we explain this difference and above all, how can we change this sad trend?