Orange cones and detour signs are objects that generally make us wince. Yet, they are there to protect us and to announce beautiful improvements to come. It’s the same spiritually!

Then here are some questions to discuss: We marry for love, but our marriage must also have a purpose. What purpose should a Christian marriage have? Read Joshua 24:15 If we marry only to meet our own needs, to fill a void, our marriage is doomed. Why do you think? Read Ephesians 5:31-33 You should not marry a person hoping that they will change after marriage. Why do you think this is dangerous?

Then here are some questions to discuss: What does the world (modern psychology) say about self-esteem? What does God say about who we are? How is knowing how God sees us good for our self-esteem? We can know what God says but have trouble accepting or believing it. So how do we believe it, especially when we see the opposite? Why is it important to have good self-esteem before entering into a relationship?

So you’re single with no one in sight. Great! This is the perfect time for you to start building your marriage!

Why am I still single? What is it about me that pushes possible matches away? Being single is not always easy on our self-esteem.