You have gone through the process of changing the way you think, and you see your armor starting to fall off. I hope you are enjoying your new sense of freedom. Now, what do we do the day we wake up on the wrong side of the bed and everything goes wrong?

I was talking in the previous post about getting rid of your armor. “But you never actually said how to do it!” I know, the first step is to make the decision, to want to get rid of your armor. Then, we can start the second step: removing it.

When people ask us for help in finding someone special, one of the first questions we ask them is: Why do you think you are still single? This post is going to address the answer of “I keep people out”.