We often say that Jesus is our friend, and when we do, we look to Him to fill our loneliness, to listen to us and support us in our projects. But we rarely think that this friendship was meant to be reciprocal.

Let’s put our singleness aside for a few minutes. Let’s forget our social status, and concentrate on what really matters: our love for God. It’s okay to think about getting married. There is nothing wrong with daydreaming about a future wedding. Some singles refuse to talk about it because they do not want to be seen as someone who complains about their current status. Just because you talk about it doesn’t mean you are unhappy.

It’s been few weeks that I have had in my heart to write on this very personal subject. I’ll share my testimony with you and what I’ve learned on this subject. I hope this will be useful for someone.

_Last week_, we were encouraged by the story of Elijah. He felt alone in his faith and sometimes being single we feel the same way. But there is another valuable lesson we can learn from this passage.

We’ve looked for someone for a long time (too long some may think!) and still nobody. It almost feels like we are alone in the world with our standard. A prophet in the Bible felt the same way; his story can encourage us all.