Not all Singles want to be in a relationship. Some live very well alone; it’s a grace given to them. But to ensure that this comfort is legitimate, a little introspection is necessary.
Many singles feel that the weight of loneliness is too heavy to bear and they seek comfort in marriage. But is it wise to marry for only that reason?
It is important to consult God in all things. We are at His service, so we must follow Him. The Holy Spirit is by far the best counselor regarding any situation. But beware: we must not neglect the part we have to play in every decision.
Wanting to help others is great! Jesus asked us to be servants of one another. But there is still a limit: you have to be careful not to become the savior! This is the responsibility of Jesus and the work of the Holy Spirit.
Always striving for excellence is a great thing. But demanding perfection in all things is not only hard on our mental health, but it can also break or abort a romantic relationship.