We are bombarded with messages about idyllic love. In the movies, a man meets a woman, and after a glance, they fall deeply in love. Does love at first sight exist? Yes, but contrary to what the media tells us, we must avoid it at all costs!

The dream of many singles is to be happily married, with 2 to 4 children, living in a nice house, two cars and maybe even a dog. A lot of people pursue this image of success that is spread by the media, but is this really what God wants for you?

Men have different interests than women. The activities they do, what they are passionate about, are often quite different. Some people find it more comfortable to have a group of friends all of the same gender. However even if it is more comfortable, having a unisex circle of friends is one of the best ways to stay single.

Having goals in life is a great thing and everyone should have goals. Goals are what give us direction in our lives. A hockey game with no net, so no one can score goals is rather boring. Life without a purpose is boring. But among all the goals that you could have, marriage is not one them.

Many people are looking for a partner that will accept them as they are. Which is good, we should not change ourselves in an attempt to please others and masks are prohibited. But that doesn’t mean we can’t grow and correct our character flaws. In the end, you will reap what you sow.