Men have different interests than women. The activities they do, what they are passionate about, are often quite different. Some people find it more comfortable to have a group of friends all of the same gender. However even if it is more comfortable, having a unisex circle of friends is one of the best ways to stay single.

Having goals in life is a great thing and everyone should have goals. Goals are what give us direction in our lives. A hockey game with no net, so no one can score goals is rather boring. Life without a purpose is boring. But among all the goals that you could have, marriage is not one them.

Many people are looking for a partner that will accept them as they are. Which is good, we should not change ourselves in an attempt to please others and masks are prohibited. But that doesn’t mean we can’t grow and correct our character flaws. In the end, you will reap what you sow.

Some single people are so concerned with finding a partner that they get distracted during teachings in church. They hear what their pastors teach, but they don’t listen, which is unfortunate because the fruits of the Spirit are directly related to the way we listen.

God wants to use us for His glory, but what He asks us to do isn’t always easy. At least, not easy for us. In our opinion, another person would be in a much better position to accomplish the task. So why us?