You want to get married. Celibacy… is not for you! So should you seek, like Matthew 7:7 says, or should you wait for the Lord like Psalm 130:5 says?
Prayer is essential to a single person. Not the babbling of lifeless litanies, but a heart to heart talk with God. If prayer doesn’t bring you peace and assurance for your future relationship, maybe you are not praying the right way.
The Bible often compares Christians to sheep. Indeed, we do need a shepherd to take care of and protect us. However, that does not mean that we should follow everything we hear like sheep!
Being single is not a problem to be solved; it’s not a disease. If it was, Jesus would have been a very sick man! It is simply an indeterminate amount of time during which a single Christian has the opportunity to serve God without limits.