I think many unmarried folks can relate to my experience. On good days, I understood how much God had blessed my life, even though I had no spouse. On bad days, I felt lonely, discouraged, and even betrayed by the Lord.

We know that living in fear is not God’s plan for our lives. Our Heavenly Father wants to see us fulfilled and free. But the Bible still encourages us to have a fear, that of the Lord. Do you have to be afraid of God? Not quite.

We look at the walls of our bedroom, and we start dreaming. And if we had more of this, or more of that. Now, if we believe that having more will get us anywhere, we ought to study the story of Solomon.

How many times have you come to a conclusion about a situation, or worse, about a person, without even asking a few questions to see if your assumptions were valid? We have all made this mistake. It’s time to put a stop to that.

Sometimes our singleness weighs heavily on our soul, and we kneel to pray, but we don’t know what to ask for. That is where the Holy Spirit can help us.