Start by watching this video:

Then here are some questions to discuss:

1. We marry for love, but our marriage must also have a purpose. What purpose should a Christian marriage have?
   Read Joshua 24:15

2. If we marry only to meet our own needs, to fill a void, our marriage is doomed. Why do you think?
   Read Ephesians 5:31-33

3. You should not marry a person hoping that they will change after marriage. Why do you think this is dangerous?
   Read Matthew 7.5
   We have a big part to play in having an ideal marriage. And this very special part, we can very well start it before even meeting our life partner.

4. Imagine yourself married… What would be the ideal financial situation for your couple? And what can you change now to make it happen?

5. Imagine yourself married … What would be the ideal state of health for your couple? And what can you change now to make it happen?

6. Imagine yourself married… What would your spiritual habits be as an ideal couple? And what can you change now to make it happen?

7. Imagine yourself married … Your children would have what traits of your character? Or what bad habit do you have that you wouldn’t want to pass on to your kids? And what can you change now to make it happen?

8. What other area can we work on now to have a more harmonious married life later?
   Read Luke 14:28-32

9. Does what we have discussed today encourage you to personally do some improvement in your life? What “homework” would you give yourself this week?

Some prayer points to conclude:

Pray for each other’s challenges.
Pray for the dreams of marriage: that your future couples may make the Kingdom of God grow.
… And of course, please pray for Passion374! Thank you!

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