There is no need to take a theological class to know the standards of God regarding relationships. We all have a little voice that tells us what to do or avoid. Obedience to this voice is often worth it, but not always in the way we think.

My husband and I often hear this type of comment when we’re talking with Singles, especially when there is a desire for procreation. Our time might be counting down regarding this, but we also keep track of time in a far more important area. At Passion374, we do not believe that your partner will appear miraculously in your life. You have a small part to do. You need, at very least, to show others that you want to get married.

Yes, we were freed from the law by the sacrifice of Jesus, but that does not mean that we can do whatever our impulses want. What does Christ’s freedom mean in the context of dating? We often hear the verse: “Now the Lord is the Spirit and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty.” (2 Corinthians 3:17 WEB) This passage is even sometimes sung in our churches. Indeed, Christ has freed us.

To love is to take the risk of being hurt. Without vulnerability, it is impossible to be genuine in our relationships. However, it is wise to follow some tips to avoid having your heart broken.

Showing ample cleavage or lots of money will surely attract attention, but perhaps not the right attention. What should we do, as Christians, to attract the attention of God AND a potential match?