The Christian life is not always easy. To grow spiritually, we need to step out of our comfort zone and make sacrifices. That is also a good practice for our future married life!

Then here are some questions to discuss: There are advantages to being single. Can you name a few? But sometimes these benefits bring us into a kind of comfort. Do you find it difficult to get out of your comfort zone? What do you find most difficult about getting out of your comfort zone? (Does this comfort increase with age, is it more difficult to get out of our comfort as we age?

A piece of advice that we often hear is: don’t pretend to be someone we are not. And it is true. However, this advice should not be used as an excuse not to improve.

Then here are some questions to discuss: One of the biggest blockages for singles to enter into relationships is pride. How do you define “pride”? Pride can be manifested by being very sensitive to the opinions of others. Why do you think? Why can caring about the opinions of others be a form of pride? Pride can also manifest itself in the desire to control everything. Why do you think?

We love to sing to God, raise our needs to Him, and cry in His arms. But we are much less excited to repent. Maybe it is because we have forgotten the benefits of repentance.