Then here are some questions to discuss: There is no perfect time to start a relationship. But there are a few aspects of our life or our character that we can improve to make our future relationship easier. Take age, for example. Is it better to get married younger or older? What are the pros and cons of getting married at 20, 40, or even 60 and over? When we give our life to God, it is good to wait a bit before dating again.

Then here are some questions to discuss: Let’s laugh a little! Tell us about one of your first dates, or a story that happened to someone you know. Tell us about any mistakes or surprises you have had (or they had). How important is a first impression to you? Do you give a second chance to someone who would have been terrible on a first date, or do you make your decision on the first meeting?

When we start a new job, we want to be useful. We want to use our talents for the benefit of our employer. And this is great! But that attitude should be found in all areas of our life.

Then here are some questions to discuss: The first temptation is to take control of the situation. God isn’t moving fast enough, so we’re going to do it ourselves! What do you see as a problem that this can cause in your search for a partner? It’s good to take steps to meet someone. But how do we know if we are taking steps or if we are rather taking control?

“Bah! I don’t believe in love… ” Some people have been so hurt by a past relationship that they no longer dare to dream of a beautiful romance. Yet God can free us from our past and allow us to hope again.